Yesterday, I had a great conversation with my sister and something sparked this title. Soo let me explain: I decided to open up and give myself a chance to getting to know someone new. With the thought 💭 this would be a great opportunity to grow and groom through this process. Now I have been experiencing some one way territory yet I still stuck it out to Learn where can I grow and what about this is pushing me to some setbacks and past experiences. I begin to apologize more after my self reflection but I found myself giving more of myself than the other person. Yet, I still pleaded and begin to feel/look like I was chasing after someone who was still not seeing i was running empty from giving to them. Well, yesterday being my wake up call to the growth I have experienced through all the ups and downs, I accepted the end of this page. What I want to share is some lessons from the process: 1. It is not our business it one to help teach a person we are involve with ( if they don’t grow from y’all interaction, it’s not your place and don’t take on burden; learn and grow yourself) 2. Recognize and acknowledge when you are experiencing trigger points that you still need to heal from( it’s going to be ugly and a peel back before you heal; you can try to explain and communicate it but if the person isn’t open to meeting you where you are, be okay with a Goodbye) 3. It’s not easy getting back to the dating or social life and you won’t be fully ready but I believe you do have to date causal or interact social to learn, develop, grow before meeting your mate (this means taking risk of being vulnerable, open, being out your comfort zone, and healing ❤️‍🩹) 4. Don’t take what’s not working as a negative, see how you can grow and what you learn about yourself ( your likes, your dislikes, areas you find you need to grow in, love language, what hurts, what helps, Red flags you need to build in your awareness library, so take and learn) 5. Don’t become bitter but better. So these are just some recent lessons I wanted to share and hope it helps. These dating and social streets aren’t how they use to be. We need authentication, realness, truth, and safety(security). So allow others that time and space! Love-Love-Learn🫶🏽