Do what you need to do to make sure you are in good health:mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. You may have done all you can do to help someone but things are not working and you have the choice to change your mind. You’re not a bad person or wrong because you changed your mind. You have every right to choose to do what you believe is best. Sometimes up until the last minute you decide to make a different decision that the other person or people might not be happy with(the last minute change)but that’s okay. If you find that you’re doing what is going to give you a peace of mind and peace then you do that. Don’t let anyone make you feel uncomfortable, unhappy, or wrong for choosing what is best suited for you. Peace over_________________{whatever you need to put there}.